He was spending more time cellphone and hesitated to share his routine with me. It was a bit strange to me, but I didn’t think about being cheated on and even didn’t find any sign of cheating husband in him. Moreover, we both loved each other and that why we got married in the start of our careers. I was a career oriented person and wanted to progress in my filed I all ways possible. I used to work spend in office and kept working at night even after coming back home. Whenever my husband asked me to spend time together, I refused him and when he insisted I blamed him for not supporting me in my career. We kept following the same routine over two years, when I got promotion and got some time for myself. However, I realized that my husband wasn’t the same. He used to love me, take care of me, but the actual spark was vanished. I asked him and then ignored as I wanted to concentrate on my career only. And the day came when I saw him hanging out with one of his female friend in a shopping mall. I went back home, called him, and asked him to let me check his cell phone. There was an endless conversation between them, not sexting though. But, love and affection were very clear. I was out of my mind and wanted to leave him. I went to my mother’s place and told her everything honestly. She helped me sort out the relationship and identify my mistakes. It was me who was ignoring him and taking him for granted. He always tried to talk to me and treated me with love, but I always undermined his little efforts and desired for big things only. I decided to give a new start to my relationship and always suggest couples to treat each other with love. Here are some lessons I learned from my experience:
Need Love to Develop Confidence
Sometimes, a big difference between the success rate of both spouses makes one feel low. He or she believes that they don’t deserve this life partner. With love and affection, you can realize them their importance in your life.
Companionship
A partner means a companion to whom you discuss your problems, feelings, and share special moments together. No giving proper time and attention make the partner miss the need of a friend which they start finding in another person. Once they start fining it from you, they won’t feel the need of another person in life.
Responsibility
It often happens that one partner overburdens the other partner by putting all responsibilities on them. If a husband or wife is earning and paying bills, but they also have to do household articles after coming home back, then they might have fed up of this relationship and decide to cheat. Fulfill your responsibilities effectively and minimize the chances of being cheated on. It will give immense relief to your spouse and you will see a big difference in his or her mood.
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